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Embrace autism: How to make the impossible possible

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Every April, Autism Month is celebrated to raise awareness about individuals with autism, who are often recognised as having unique abilities. This month reminds us of both the challenges and the beauty inherent in neurodiversity, encouraging society to learn from and support those living on the spectrum.

Parenting a child with autism presents significant challenges that last a lifetime. The journey is difficult and full of unpredictable moments; however, through unwavering love, parents and families can find paths forward.

This dedication can gradually transform what seems impossible into tangible possibilities, offering hope in times of adversity. Autism creates a dynamic in which each day is unique for families, marked by complexities in communication that often lead to stress from misunderstandings.

Sensory systems that are either over- or under-stimulated often disrupt daily life, resulting in meltdowns that prevent these children from experiencing a typical existence and limit their social interactions. Managing these disruptions can be challenging, as caregivers require quick thinking and emotional flexibility.

Transforming the impossible into the possible for individuals with autism requires keen observation, creative thinking, and adaptability, whether by reducing stressors or building resilience through gradual learning and exposure. With consistent effort and compassionate support, families start to notice significant breakthroughs.

Not all parents or guardians of autistic children and adults possess the skills or understanding necessary to address the isolation and meltdowns that characterise their condition. This knowledge gap can lead to setbacks, reinforcing the belief that managing these behaviours is unattainable or impossible.

Some parents take proactive steps by learning strategies to support their children. They discover that connection arises from understanding, persistence, and patience. Identifying a child’s specific needs early establishes a crucial foundation. Patience is essential, allowing parents to stay calm and consistent when handling their child.

Consistent routines and daily greetings reduce anxiety while fostering emotional trust within the family. These practices strengthen the bond between the child and their support system.

Drawing on her experience as a mother of an autistic child and an expert in exercise science, the author shares five strategies for growth. These strategies emphasise embracing a child’s interests, encouraging movement, and strengthening family bonds through teamwork.

Trampoline Jumping for Joy and Regulation
Jumping on a trampoline releases energy, improves balance, and helps regulate the sensory system. When parents and siblings join in, it transforms into a fun and engaging group activity that enhances coordination and emotional bonds.

Water as a Motivator for Movement
If your child enjoys water, use it as a reward after they complete tasks like writing or reading. Rewarding their efforts with water play keeps them engaged and excited about participating.

Circuit Training for Energy Release
To improve motor skills and concentration, arrange a straightforward circuit that includes activities like trampoline jumping, walking, or using an elliptical machine. Families can rotate through each station, making the exercise a fun, team-building activity.

Family Routines
Establish consistent daily routines featuring predictable activities and simple greetings to minimise uncertainty and anxiety. Involving the entire family creates a comforting ritual that fosters trust and emotional safety.

Sibling Teamwork at the Theme Park
Visiting a theme park can be a wonderful bonding experience when it is tailored to the children’s interests and sensitivities. Allow siblings to lead in rides and activities while parents support their interactions to encourage inclusion and build confidence.

These ideas focus on the child's enjoyment, making activities more enjoyable, engaging, and easier to navigate. Playing enhances emotional regulation and physical development. Collaborative involvement builds a strong and dependable family support system.

Engaging siblings fosters empathy and connection, helping the autistic child feel included while creating lasting memories for the entire family. If you feel overwhelmed as a parent, focus on what brings your child joy. Create routines centred on those joyful moments and invite family members to join in.

Every small win counts - whether it's a smile, a peaceful moment, or a seamless outing. These victories help shape a connected and hopeful family life.

Autism presents challenges while fostering resilience, creativity, and love. Let’s continue learning, supporting, and celebrating the strength found in neurodiverse families this month and beyond.

This is the author's personal view and does not necessarily represent the views or official position of RTM.

PROF DR. SOH KIM GEOK
Prof. Dr. Soh Kim Geok
Sports Studies Department
Faculty of Educational Studies
Universiti Putra Malaysia
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